Posted on: Sep 10 2017

These 19 People Share the Sweet Side of BDSM

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BDSM is often understood as a sex lifestyle that involves bondage, a dominant, and submissive. A couple or however many people that want to be involved, enjoy sadism and masochism for sexual pleasure. So, spanking, choking, whips, and chains are all encouraged within these sexual parameters.

The stigma for BDSM has slowly been stripped away from the likes of books like “Fifty Shades of Grey” and the subsequent movie franchise that follows but most people still don’t fully grasp the concept of it. It just looks like some people like it a little rougher than others in between the sheets. Or rather, a lot rougher than others.

What isn’t fully represented in media and other outlets is that BDSM has to take place in a safe environment, where both the sub and dom feel comfortable enough to play out the scenes that they fantasize about. There has to be plenty of trust in the room and with that, there are sweet moments in between spankings and flogging.

These 19 people reveal the sweet moments in BDSM:

1.

The last time we played, I never really got in the right mindset (I was starting to get the flu) and the nipple clamps that are barely tolerable were too much. “Daddy, owie.” In that plaintive voice. He gave me this look like “Mine to protect.” Removed the clamp and kissed me.

2.

Last night my master told me he was going to make me sleep outside. I was exhausted at the time, so I fell asleep easily. This morning I woke up in bed. went out and carried me in shortly after I fell asleep – without evevn waking me up. I think it’s cute as hell.

3.

I know this may not seem like much but it makes me smile every time. Both my pet and I play WoW. Her toon runs around and gathers loot and gear then runs up to my toon, kneels before me (which is an actual command in the game) and gives me everything she’s collected.

4.

I am a gentle person by nature and love, LOVE, aftercare. I love it how after a good spanking session, or the like, I hold her and she seems to silently melt into me. Last night this happened and I just laid there, stroking her hair and watching her nod off. I could have laid there with her forever.
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