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23 Bisexuals Confess The Biggest Differences In Dating Men And Women

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Man who has dated men and women, currently dating a man. Anecdotally, with the men I’ve dated, things are always surface deep. When “What do you wanna do for dinner?” gets an “I don’t care.” it means just that as opposed to the girls I’ve dated that get pissed when you respond with “Alright, we’ll just do leftovers then.” Also, disposition. The women I’ve dated will agree to going places or doing things even if they really don’t like it. One girl I dated hated hummus but would try some anyway when I would snack on it. With dudes I’ve dated it’d be a straight up “nah.”

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Men dating bisexual women are a lot more likely to ask for a threesome. Men dating bisexual women who ask for a threesome repeatedly despite not being able to read the fucking room, David don’t date bisexual women for very long.

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When you’re in a same-sex relationship, make absolutely sure you’re on the same page about sexuality and identity politics. I’m not sure how is for men, but as a bisexual woman who dated a lesbian for two years, she made my live a living hell by expecting me to renounce my man-loving ways and fully conform to being a lesbian. At least the man I dated before then wasn’t a full-on psychopath, just an idiot.

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The wardrobe that is doubled is a pro with women. Men are just as needy, if not more emotionally needy because they don’t talk feelings with their friends and get it alll out at home. Sex with women is softer and more about connecting than cumming. Sex with men is more vigorous more of the time, but exactly as fun somehow. It was more the same than different really.

Written by Laura McNairy

Laura is a freelance writer for TFLN. She likes to write about what she knows best — dating, sex, and being awkward, but usually in the opposite order. She is the Assistant Editor and videographer for Peach Fuzz, a sex-positive nudie magazine in ATX.