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23 Bisexuals Confess The Biggest Differences In Dating Men And Women

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Female. I think a big difference I have noticed was my own internalization of social norms and standards. With girls it was just both easier and harder to have a relationship because there weren’t these standards of how the relationship goes and who plays what roles. With guys it was easier to know what the roles were, but also it sucked to feel compelled to be a certain person.

18.

Hello, I’m a bisexual man. The biggest difference I’ve noticed is how forward you can be with sex right from the get-go. Dating and sex with a woman is a fucking dance, testing the waters to see how far you’re allowed to go. Dating and sex with a man is usually “do you have a cock? Alright, let’s get that shit in me ASAP homie.”

19.

Bisexual man here. With men, it was always about sex. Until recently, I hadn’t had a date with a guy that didn’t involve sex. With women, it was more of what a typical relationship is. I just had a first date with a guy that didn’t involve any sex. Also, guys give better head. Just throwing that out there.

20.

Bi guy here. After long periods of sex without ejaculation; Girls – Is it me? Is something wrong? (Two days later) are you sure you’re not fully gay? Guys – no sweat bro… mind if I finish off and we grab a pizza?

Written by Laura McNairy

Laura is a freelance writer for TFLN. She likes to write about what she knows best — dating, sex, and being awkward, but usually in the opposite order. She is the Assistant Editor and videographer for Peach Fuzz, a sex-positive nudie magazine in ATX.