23 Confessions From A Financial Dominatrix

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Everyone knows what a dominatrix is by now, right? Just in case you don’t, a dominatrix is a woman that dominates her partner through sadomasochist sexual activities. It’s pretty kinky stuff.

But some people take domination to a whole other level with this thing called financial domination, or findomme. A financial dominatrix not only takes control sexually, but also takes control of her submissive’s finances. The submissives get sexual satisfaction from their money being withheld, and virtually being treated like sh*t.

But there is a whole lot more to it than that. It gets even kinkier, and there are a lot of factors to consider. Want to know more? Read the following accounts from some financial dominatrixes, and learn all about their super kinky af lifestyle. It’s hella interesting, and will have you all like “WTF?!”

This is what it’s like to be a financial dominatrix:


1.

A financial dominatrix is a (usually female) domme who men get a sexual release from giving them money and getting insulted by them. I did offer financial advise though, to insure that they didn’t waste all their money on the kink and made sure they had enough to eat.

2.

My “career” started when I was 16. I look quite exotic and have always looked older than what I actually am so, random men kind of brought me into the scene of findom. I had to quit when I got into the twitter scene of findom and people decided to find personal information about me such as my address and workplace. It took a strain on my mental health and made me quit.

3.

Most of my income was from cam/picture sites that required me to report it as income so, yes I paid taxes. And I made about 1K-3K a week with about 3-4 different clients. The most I made from one person was 5K.

4.

Men get sexual release out of giving dominating women their money (usually a lot of it) and getting insulted, bullied and/or getting exposed to their family members (consensually). It had a huge fetish overlap with the whole diaper community/mommy fetish.

Written by Alex Cogen

Alex is a New Yorker currently living in Austin. She loves cats, grass, and latex but unfortunately is allergic to all 3. She makes mom and dad jokes more than she cares to admit (jk she'll admit it loud and proud). She isn't as funny as she thinks she is. She is the founder of thelazygurl.com.