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23 Confessions From A Financial Dominatrix

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Some guys are just into emotional abuse. I had a caller just now that told me that he was very attractive and had a large penis, but he didn’t feel satisfied. So I called him some names, laughed at him, etc. He said if I was bored I could hang up and raise my rate, so I did. I raised it to $14.50 a minute. He called back for one minute (he only had $15 left to spend) and I made $10. He just wanted to hear my voice. I told him I was going to shit on his face and make him smile through the tears.

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Some of the most common fetishes I encounter are financial domination, cuckolding, forced feminization (dressing up as a woman, anal play, being pegged, etc), verbal humiliation, and c*ck & ball torture.

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Masturbation training is the following: Step 1 is them stroking themselves softly & slowly for about 10 seconds. Then I tell them I am going to count to 5 & then they can speed up & grip themselves a little bit harder. This is where I generally launch into a fantasy personalized to them. I start that, talk for about 15 seconds, then tell them when I count to 5 they can speed up & grip themselves a little bit harder. This goes on for as long as I think it needs to, then I tell them when I count to 5 they will cum. When I hit 5 (ascending voice tone) I tell them to cum for me. Then I tell them that I own them.

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The submissive is aware that he pays for everything, and the fetish is based around “rinsing”, meaning both are aware that the goal of the session is for me to rinse as much cash from the submissive as possible. A “normal” dominatrix would use other tactics of punishment, I’d use money.

Written by Alex Cogen

Alex is a New Yorker currently living in Austin. She loves cats, grass, and latex but unfortunately is allergic to all 3. She makes mom and dad jokes more than she cares to admit (jk she'll admit it loud and proud). She isn't as funny as she thinks she is. She is the founder of thelazygurl.com.