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23 Confessions From A Financial Dominatrix

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Very few submissives have it as their main and only fetish and it is generally combined in with other fetishes they enjoy. The money is just another means to control.

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I discovered it by accident, because a lot of things involved in it were things I was already doing in my own relationships. As well as other fetishes I enjoy, they were just things I was doing while being completely unaware there was a scene. I started doing r/t domination sessions and slowly learned more about online domination, which is where I discovered more of an actual scene so to speak and became more heavily involved in D/s relationships in general. but the core concepts I just had been already enjoying on my own.

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A session can last any amount of time tbh. The very shortest i can recall was maybe 10 minutes. I get paid variable amounts. My owned/full time slaves tend to pay me regularly, such as when they get paid or whenever I want something. Others pay for sessions. Some send random gifts to show appreciation, even anonymously.

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The “payment” is called a tribute. It is technically a sacrifice of sorts, so the amount some can give affects them more then what others can afford. I keep this in mind. My general rule is that bigger money gets bigger attention. But I understand how much they could have used this money in their own lives, and it means something to both of us that they gave it to me.

Written by Alex Cogen

Alex is a New Yorker currently living in Austin. She loves cats, grass, and latex but unfortunately is allergic to all 3. She makes mom and dad jokes more than she cares to admit (jk she'll admit it loud and proud). She isn't as funny as she thinks she is. She is the founder of thelazygurl.com.