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25 People Confess The Moment They Realized They Had Dirty Kinks

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Completely dominating a girl who claims to be a dom. In any situation I love being the one in control. If you let me, I’ll tie you right the fuck up, push you down into the bed and fuck the shit out of you until shake. I found out that a lot of girls are really in to this. But one girl I met at a party was pretty aggressive right from the start. She was the one to start flirting and dancing and such. I ended up taking her back to my place and I could tell what I was up against when she started trying to push me against walls as we were hooking up. Well we eventually made it to the bedroom and when we started the horizontal tango, she was constantly trying to be the one on top, and would try to wrestle me down (which to be honest, was really kinda fun). Eventually I decided to put my foot down and really take control. I’m a big guy so I didn’t hold an ounce of strength back and put her in doggy style, held her wrists together behind her back, put her face into the sheets and drilled her. The most turned on I’ve ever been was when I felt her limp up as she let out a huge moan. That’s the moment I found out.

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I’m in a jazz band, and I would be constantly drawn to the hands of the piano player when he played. He was very pale so his knuckles were red all the time, and so it always looked like he’d just punched something. For some reason that’s really, really hot in my view, and I got turned on nearly every time the band met. it’s weird, I notice the hands on some of the more attractive band mates when they play and it really provokes a strong reaction in me. It’s pretty distracting.

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Being pegged. Sophomore year in HS. Was trying to talk my girlfriend at the time into letting me fuck her in the ass and told her I’d be open to letting her do it to me first.

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Dominating my husband. I’ve recently gotten really into it when I can be on top and pin him down, pull his hair, or otherwise be rough with him. I’ve hinted at pegging and other butt stuff, but he doesn’t seem down. Yet.

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My girlfriend and I have sex while she wears one of those inflatable trex costumes. It started out as a joke, but we’ve kept doing it and it gets better each time. Now I like to keep a glass of water on the night stand and watch the ripples on every thrust, just like the movie. Last time we did it, right before I came, I yelled at her “Hold onto your butts”.

Written by Laura McNairy

Laura is a freelance writer for TFLN. She likes to write about what she knows best — dating, sex, and being awkward, but usually in the opposite order. She is the Assistant Editor and videographer for Peach Fuzz, a sex-positive nudie magazine in ATX.