25 Things More Girls Need To Start Doing In Bed

21.

Give me foreplay as well. Some women don’t understand erections need to be fed. They don’t just get up and stay up for the entire session. Touch me in non-sexual areas. Make me anticipate your next touch. Make me want it.

22.

Swirl their tongue on the glans. I figured that’d be Oral Sex 101, but I guess not.

23.

Let me go down on them. I am genuinely baffled at the fact that two of my three sexual partners I’ve had would let me finger them and have intercourse, but I couldn’t reciprocate on the oral sex. I thought it was me, but talking with some of my female friends has revealed that many girls are uncomfortable with anyone getting that up close and personal with their lady-bits, because its “dirty”. I blame lack of sex ed, and society shaming women, for this phenomenon. You had my penis in your mouth, how is that any different?

24.

Talk dirty. I get it requires a bit of confidence but it’s insanely hot.

25.

Give head with Confidence and enthusiasm. For men, sex is as much visible as it is Physical. We can feel the subtlety in your mannerisms. When you don’t want to give head. We KNOW it. And you’re not really helping anyone, because it’s just going to take us longer to cum, when you do it half heartedly. Giving head like it was the greatest event of your life can shave minutes off of the time it’ll take a man to cum. So enjoy it, your neck will thank you. Ps…… shitty head is STILL amazing so we’re not going to tell you to stop.

Written by Alex Cogen

Alex is a New Yorker currently living in Austin. She loves cats, grass, and latex but unfortunately is allergic to all 3. She makes mom and dad jokes more than she cares to admit (jk she'll admit it loud and proud). She isn't as funny as she thinks she is. She is the founder of thelazygurl.com.