21 Sugar Babies Admit Real Life Experiences with Sugar Daddies

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I have a sugar daddy at the moment and had two before. I’ve got into it “irl” while I was doing a gap year abroad after high school. A friend of mine there was doing it and I joined her and her sugar daddy at an event and met my first one there, a friend of her sugar daddy. I was with him for the rest of my year there and a while after I came back to my country I wanted to get into it again and found the other two over SA.

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One with a man who lived a couple hours from me. Married. Hated his wife. Would pay me $2000 plus pay for a hotel and room service AND dinner for me to come and spend time with him. Once a month or so. I didn’t know he was married at first and I broke it off when I found out.

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I used to be friends with someone who was a user of a sugar-daddy site. She said there weren’t really too many negatives to it once you were clear on what you were doing on it. $500 to go out and grab a meal with someone for a few hours that they’re paying for, why not? Occasionally she’d get more up front questions such as “will you sleep with me for $2000” but she ignored those.

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I’ve tried to become a sugar baby, hoping to find a man who just wants platonic company in exchange for money or an attractive daddy who I’m more than willing to sleep with for funds. Instead I’ve just received messages from unattractive men not willing to put in effort to spoil me until I feel guilty enough to sleep with them. Basically all they want is sex and they are very explicit/eager about it. A friend of mine told me she would meet them once as an “introduction” to get free food and some money and just to talk about relations in the future and never speak to them again afterwards. I tried that once and it worked. I tried that method again on a daddy when I was kind of desperate for money and was considering going all the way with him and he replied to the suggestion of an introductory meeting by saying, “I don’t pay to meet for a cup of coffee!”

Written by Irvi Torremoro

Irvi Torremoro is an Austinite by way of Las Vegas. She's worked in various outlets in food & beverage and is now focused on writing, eating all the things, talking about Beyonce, and petting all the puppies. She runs flavorandbounty.com, a lifestyle blog about people in the service industry.