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These Dirty People Haven’t Told Their SO About Their Kinky Fetish

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I have actually told her some, though maybe not the whole extent. I like to watch people be hurt and uncomfortable and tortured with toys and multiple orgasms. The more pain they seem to be in, the more they seem to want it to stop, the better. The problem is I’m just not cruel enough to pull off what I really want, and I don’t think I could enjoy watching my wife in pain or distress. Plus she’d have to actually be consenting and I’d know that and that would kill it. At least with porn I can suspend disbelief because I don’t know the people involved. Basically I’m a sexual sadist who doesn’t like hurting people. It’s quite a conundrum.

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So he knows I’m into being choked but one time, the day we went skydiving, I had a couple drinks afterwards and we had a long day and I think the overall oxygen levels in my blood were low. We got frisky, he choked me, I blacked out. Was super scary but of course he realized what was happening and stopped. When I realized what just happened, it had obviously killed the mood for him, but I was incredibly turned on by it. I don’t want to make him uncomfortable so I haven’t mentioned it but that was the weirdest/best high ever. So now my harmless asphyxiation fetish has turned into an incredibly dangerous desire. I’m always hoping we’ll have another “accident” despite knowing how terribly stupid that is.

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I want her to be completely hair-less down there and wear horizontally white-black stripped thigh-high socks.

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Lightly mentioned in passing, but never got really serious about it. I want to watch him destroy someone’s ass. I want to bring a third person into our sex life and just have them destroyed and humiliated sexually on my command.

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I’m single at the moment but none of my boyfriends have known how much our size difference turns me on. I’m short with tiny hands, and a huge creep. I love the way men’s legs look when sitting in a short chair or cramped car. I love lining my hands up with theirs on either side like a handwich. I memorize the size difference so I can look in a mirror later and put my hand on my own throat and see how far around my neck their hand would go. I love feeling like they could crush me like a bug if they felt like it. I want them to completely overpower me and me not be able to slow them down physically.

Written by Laura McNairy

Laura is a freelance writer for TFLN. She likes to write about what she knows best — dating, sex, and being awkward, but usually in the opposite order. She is the Assistant Editor and videographer for Peach Fuzz, a sex-positive nudie magazine in ATX.