Virgins Were Shocked To Find Out These 21 Things The First Time They Had Sex

14.

Biggest surprise: how easily the clothes just drop off and things progress unimpeded when there’s 100% consent and desire to go all the way. Now I get completely turned off and can’t/won’t pursue a girl further if things are going that way and and she guards herself during kissing/foreplay. Can’t handle the thought of myself feeling rapey or like I was trying to swindle her into something she didn’t want.

15.

It was underwhelming. I was a virgin and she wasn’t; for the first few months it was just handjobs for me and oral/fingering for her. Obviously the handjobs were without a condom so I was used to her hand. When I finally put on a condom and got in, it was kinda like, “this is it?”

16.

1) How quickly I came. 2) How wet she was. I know girls got wet, but I was really not expecting it to just be like that before I went down on her or touched her down there. It was really hot.

17.

As a girl, I thought a “piece of me” would be missing afterwards. So many adults made it seem that you’re ~losing your innocence~ or something after you have sex for the first time. It was SHOOK to find out that I felt completely the same, if not better because I just got BONED and it was awesome.

Written by Laura McNairy

Laura is a freelance writer for TFLN. She likes to write about what she knows best — dating, sex, and being awkward, but usually in the opposite order. She is the Assistant Editor and videographer for Peach Fuzz, a sex-positive nudie magazine in ATX.