in dating The 5 Stages of Grief When You’re Still Having Sex with Your Ex by Brittany Shulman November 10, 2016, 1:00 pm 3. Bargaining “If I only let it happen four more times, it'll be fine.” “Everyone has break-up sex. Shit's better than happy-relationship-sex.” “Sex doesn't mean feelings. Sex doesn't mean feelings.” *Repeats to self a million times* Written by Brittany Shulman Brittany is a New Jersey native living in Austin, Texas. She loves dogs, bad reality television, and politics.