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These 21 People Have Relationship-Destroying Sexual Secrets

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In the year before I went to university, I was pretty much in a three-way relationship with a married couple who lived down the road from my house. They were also into swinging and hosted swing parties fairly often and I went to some of them, despite being generally 20-30 years younger than almost everyone else there. I ended up having group sex a few times as well as engaging in quite a few other ‘firsts’. On one occasion my dad’s (now former) business partner came to a party and I ended up giving him a blowjob while a bunch of other people watched. I’ve never told anyone, not my current SO and not even my best friend, about what I was getting up to during that year.

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I was part of a screaming eagle, have been in an orgy, enjoy eating ass, & have had three ways. I’m pretty open to stuff. But my SO is really, really vanilla. I’m okay with that. But I don’t think we’re at the point.

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When I was 19, me and three other guys took turns banging two chicks. We invited these two chicks over to my buddy’s house, because we knew they’d be down for some action. We realized they were outnumbered, but just figured we’d let them pick which of us they wanted to bang. We played some drinking games, got loaded, started playing truth or dare, ended with one of the girls dragging me and my buddy into a bedroom, and the other chick dragging the other two into the same bedroom. There was a king sized bed, and the girls got naked, laid next to each other, and we took turns banging them.

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I’ve disclosed some things with my husband such as public sex and the usual ‘risque’ stuff. I’ve never told him about being tied up with scarves kinbaku style to the point my boobs changed colour bent over and getting effed in the A. Or being flogged whilst strapped to a crucifix in a fetish club. Or other forays into being a sub. I’m a housewife now and life is very vanilla.

Written by Alex Cogen

Alex is a New Yorker currently living in Austin. She loves cats, grass, and latex but unfortunately is allergic to all 3. She makes mom and dad jokes more than she cares to admit (jk she'll admit it loud and proud). She isn't as funny as she thinks she is. She is the founder of thelazygurl.com.