Visiting family can be tough.

From political conversations at the dinner table to misunderstood jokes in the car, it can get heated (or hilarious) quickly.

Especially if you’ve got offensive grandparents with zero time for your sense of humor, the things you’re into and the “gah-dang millennial Internet mumbo-jumbo” you love.

Cheers to family and all, but to be honest, sometimes we just don’t want the lecture on Kim K. Thankfully, they don’t always get it.

And they probably wouldn’t get these 16 tees either:

1. On a scale of 1 to NOPE, would your grams get this Yoncé reference?

Slay All Day tank: Spencer’s

2. How about this Mean Girls quote?

Get In Loser We’re Going Shopping tee: Spencer’s

3. Twas the best burn felt around the world.

Your Mom tee: Spencer’s

4. Ramen. Kitties. Gold.

Ramen Noodles Pusheen tee: Spencer’s

5. Who remembers this weird sh*t?! (If not, Google.)

#puppymonkeybaby tee: Spencer’s