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17 People Share the Awkward AF Moments Family Found Out About Their BDSM Fetish

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My mother found out I was into some rather kinky things one day while I temporarily lived with them. She stumbled upon my “drawer” of peculiar toys & questioned me about them & carried on about her day as if nothing happened. But the best was just the other day. She came to visit me & we were talking about my boyfriend of over a year (who she adores). We were laughing over casual conversation when suddenly my jaw clicked. She saw me grimace & kind of “adjust” my jaw… Without skipping a beat in our conversation she casually looks at me & says “Ya know, I know you’re really into pain & whips & all that, but maybe take it easy on the d*ck sucking. That could really hurt you if you aren’t careful!”

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Within a year or two of being married I was discovering my submissive side, one of the first things to emerge was spanking. So spanking became a regular part of foreplay. One afternoon I went to visit my mother and we decided to go for a swim in the community pool just down the street. I didn’t bring a bathing suit but mom and I are about the same size, so she said she’d loan me one. We went and her room, she handed me a suit and I got undressed in front of her, she exclaimed “What happened to you! Is Joe beating you?” We had sex that morning and big red hand prints were on my buttocks. She was upset and started talking to me about abused women, I needed to move back home and press charges against my husband. So we had to talk, I had to explain about BDSM, and getting turned on by spanking. Finally I said “remember when I was 8 and stayed with Aunt Sue and Uncle Bob, I got punished for trampling the garden? I kind of had a crush on Uncle Bob, and when he spanked me, welll….” Mom said “Oh…I see”.

Written by Irvi Torremoro

Irvi Torremoro is an Austinite by way of Las Vegas. She's worked in various outlets in food & beverage and is now focused on writing, eating all the things, talking about Beyonce, and petting all the puppies. She runs flavorandbounty.com, a lifestyle blog about people in the service industry.