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19 Characteristics That Make People Instantly Attractive

5.

Genuine kindness. I still remember this girl I met around a year and a half ago. I probably had a total of an hour around her, and only talked to her in a group setting, but the way she showed true interest in what I or anyone else was saying, and the way she exuded positivity, but not blind positivity just for the sake of being positive, and the way she seemed to be a genuinely happy person that wanted happiness for those around her, even those she just met, was what made her not just instantly attractive, but also so memorable.

6.

Their total disinterest in me.

7.

Their vibe. I don’t know if I can be any less vague than that; it’s just there will be something in the way they speak, the way they carry themselves, just something. I fell for my last crush while we were idly chit-chatting about nothing in particular, and all of a sudden she became the most gorgeous woman in the world.

Written by Alex Cogen

Alex is a New Yorker currently living in Austin. She loves cats, grass, and latex but unfortunately is allergic to all 3. She makes mom and dad jokes more than she cares to admit (jk she'll admit it loud and proud). She isn't as funny as she thinks she is. She is the founder of thelazygurl.com.