Sometimes I will wake up and my blanket will have “spunk” all on the inside of it. Other times it is on my leg with no pants on. And other times I will wake up mid wank and stop. 18.
I didn’t know I was doing it until my wife told me and accused me of it. I of course, had no recollection whatsoever, and denied it. It kept occuring every few nights and then every night. Caused a lot of problems because, well, its really hard to get people to believe you when you say this. I actually resolved it (mostly, it still happens sometimes) by a trick my therapist taught me. When Im going to sleep, think about masturbating – then “focus” on that part of my brain and try to “talk” to it. Turns out it started talking back and I ended up having these conversations with myself where I would tell myself that we are not going to do this tonight. 19.
It doesn’t happen that often, maybe four of five times a month. I tend to be a little aggressive, but easily shut down. My current SO loves it unless she’s really tired. I also find that if I’ve been drinking, even just a few beers, the occurrence rate goes up. Ditto if I sleep naked (generally I do). I have not ever had it happen when I was wearing clothes in bed. I will usually wake up halfway through, and depending on how tired I am and my SO’s reaction, either get into it and go, or roll over and go back to sleep. It’s a weird feeling when she tells me the next morning.
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