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19 People Share When They Realized They Were Into BDSM

5.

I never minded being spanked as a child, and always a chose spanking over other punishments offered.

6.

When we played pretend as kids, I typically chose to be mother or owner figure. Through adolescence, I was a flirt and loved male attention. I was always subtle but I knew who was interested and teased them. At 14, a friend started calling me ma’am and it was the sexiest thing ever. I’ve always liked control (nonsexual) and have been a perfectionist for as long as I can remember.

7.

Probably the warm feeling I got from pushing little girls down in the dirt when I was 5 just to watch them cry should have been my first inkling

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We’d play dress up and be princesses and I always wanted to be the one who was kidnapped and tied up. That’s when I knew.

Written by Irvi Torremoro

Irvi Torremoro is an Austinite by way of Las Vegas. She's worked in various outlets in food & beverage and is now focused on writing, eating all the things, talking about Beyonce, and petting all the puppies. She runs flavorandbounty.com, a lifestyle blog about people in the service industry.