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These 19 Women Deal with Higher Sex Drives than Their SO’s

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Sex drive is huge, especially when you need to be in sync with your partner. Teenagers and their hormones make the sex drive go through the f*cking roof but what happens when you you’ve grown out of that phase? It’s only supposed to get better as we get older. Women’s sexual peak is around their late 30’s whereas men are much earlier than that.

It sucks for ladies that are still trying to get laid while they’re partner’s not on the same wavelength. I know, sounds crazy, right? You wouldn’t think that you’d run across a partner that doesn’t want to to f*ck day and night but when you throw in the stress of work/life balance, most guys may be too tired for sexy time between the sheets.

I used to have a boyfriend that would fall asleep in the midst of foreplay.. Like, down there. Are you f*cking kidding me dude? What’s the equivalent of blue balls for women? Because that dude left me hanging PLENTY of times, which was pretty frustrating. I’ll pray to the heavens that guy’s learned his lesson by now and that I don’t ever have to deal with that with my next partner.

These 19 women dealt with higher libidos than their partner’s:

1.

My sex drive is DEFINITELY higher than his. We’ve been dating for a little under a year now and for me I’m more or less ready to have sex all the time whereas with him it’ll be like … once a week, if that, where he wants to f*ck. It’s not awful, because I have my toys and I understand that it’s not me, but I do feel very self conscious about it sometimes because I’ll initiate or send flirty texts and most of the time I’ll get rejected.

2.

I’ve never had a boyfriend who matched my libido. Well, maybe when I was 16 but you know, teenagers with raging hormones or something. They ALWAYS start out saying they’re “always in the mood for sex” but it’s never been true.

3.

Yeah, I absolutely have a higher libido than my boyfriend. I used to get so pissed when my idiot sexist ex coworkers would say ALL women have lower libidos than ALL men. I mean what kind of idiot sexist do you have to be to make “all” statements???!

4.

He jacks off all the time, but I want SEX more often.

Written by Irvi Torremoro

Irvi Torremoro is an Austinite by way of Las Vegas. She's worked in various outlets in food & beverage and is now focused on writing, eating all the things, talking about Beyonce, and petting all the puppies. She runs flavorandbounty.com, a lifestyle blog about people in the service industry.