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These 19 Women Deal with Higher Sex Drives than Their SO’s

17.

I’m working on figuring this out now. I really need to figure out what the patterns are for him–when he wants it, when he doesn’t, what can pique his interest (we’ve kind of lost all creativity over the past year, I think we’d both like to switch it up). So I’ve been asking subtle questions and trying really hard not to speak resentfully or accusingly about it, which is tough because I feel so hurt and horny when I’m turned down. Until we sort something out, I masturbate whenever I can.

18.

I dealt with this in 90% of my past relationships and after a while it always caused problems. I got shot down every single time I initiated, so I just stopped. It’s not fair that he’s the only one who gets to initiate and then blame me if I dare to say no.

19.

My boyfriend and I used to have so much sex when we were dating. When we moved in together, it all changed. He’s constantly falling asleep, especially when he goes down on me. It’s so f*cking frustrating. We need to have a talk about it ASAP.

Written by Irvi Torremoro

Irvi Torremoro is an Austinite by way of Las Vegas. She's worked in various outlets in food & beverage and is now focused on writing, eating all the things, talking about Beyonce, and petting all the puppies. She runs flavorandbounty.com, a lifestyle blog about people in the service industry.