21 Unspoken Sex Rules That Need To Be Followed

When it comes to sex, there are plenty of rules to follow. Sometimes they are rules specific to you and your partner, and require discussion and planning. Others are just a given, and go without saying.

We all should know those unspoken sex rules. Whether you know them instinctively, or learned them through experience, there are certain things that are definite no nos.

There are the ones that instantly come to mind, like making sure the sex is consensual should go without saying (YOU HEAR THAT SCUM BAGS OF PLANET EARTH?!). And then there are others that some gross/stupid people need to be reminded of, like washing your hands beforehand and peeing after sex.

So, if you need the reminder, the following sex rules don’t need any explaining. And, if they do, run like the wind from that partner, Bulleseye!

These 21 unspoken sex rules need to be followed:






Written by Alex Cogen

Alex is a New Yorker currently living in Austin. She loves cats, grass, and latex but unfortunately is allergic to all 3. She makes mom and dad jokes more than she cares to admit (jk she'll admit it loud and proud). She isn't as funny as she thinks she is. She is the founder of