23 Bisexuals Confess The Biggest Differences Between Dating People Of Each Sex

5.

My boyfriend and I do “crotch checks.” We’ll be watching a movie or something, and one of us will grab the other’s groin to see if they’ve got wood. Even if they don’t, this usually leads to sex in fairly short order. Couldn’t do that with a woman.

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Gay guys give better blowjobs (just as I’d imagine lesbians are better at eating out). But not having to worry about prep for anal, and actually having totally spontaneous sex, is nice too.

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Boys always broke my heart with lack of thought, or lack of action. Girls broke my heart in ways that seemed like going out of their way to cause maximum pain.

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For me, the biggest shocking similarity was sex. It’s basically the same thing, just with different appendages involved. The goal is still similar (to get off and get closer to your partner), the only difference being equipment. I thought it’d be a whole new world, but sex with my ex-girlfriend was fairly similar to sex I have with my boyfriend now.

Written by Alex Cogen

Alex is a New Yorker currently living in Austin. She loves cats, grass, and latex but unfortunately is allergic to all 3. She makes mom and dad jokes more than she cares to admit (jk she'll admit it loud and proud). She isn't as funny as she thinks she is. She is the founder of thelazygurl.com.