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23 Bisexuals Confess The Biggest Differences In Dating Men And Women

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The sex: depending on the partners sexual style they can be very different or very similar. But in general sex with women is more varied, tends to last longer and everyone orgasms 5-10 times. Sex with men tends to be more penis focused. However both men and women can be selfish or giving lovers.

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By far the biggest difference was expectations for gender roles in the relationship. Pretty much all men I dated expected I carry the burden of the emotional work of the relationship and (If living with them) the house work. It is really not attractive when your boyfriend just expects you to be responsible for his laundry and remember birthdays/pick up cards/ make the shopping list/ tell him what chores to “help” with as if I turned into their secretary or mom. And the thing was they weren’t even conscious of it! With the women I have dated it has been far more equal with actual discussions about these things. I mean all couples argue about chores, but it’s nice when the default expectation that I’m responsible for it isn’t there.

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Male who has dated both men and women. Most women don’t trust bisexual dudes, even if they decide to have a relationship with you. My last gf used to make fun of me for being bi and she tried to tell me I really was just gay but couldn’t admit it. She once said to me that she thought I was going to give her an std because I am bi…then she bust out laughing like it was funny. Women like to play more games than men. Men are more direct. If a guy wants to have sex, he is not afraid to let you know it. If something bothers a guy, you will find out about it, trust me.

Written by Laura McNairy

Laura is a freelance writer for TFLN. She likes to write about what she knows best — dating, sex, and being awkward, but usually in the opposite order. She is the Assistant Editor and videographer for Peach Fuzz, a sex-positive nudie magazine in ATX.