23 Concerns People Have When They’re About To Have Sex With Someone New

by Alex Cogen

17.

That there’ll be something about my naked body that they’ll find unappealing and they’ll bail or be grossed out the whole time.

18.

Handling consent, I want to make sure she is ok with everything but I don’t want to ruin the mood by stating “PLEASE INDICATE VERBALLY THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO HAVE INTERCOURSE.”

19.

Worrying if my balls and member stink at 2:30 when I get a after bar bj.

20.

Getting started. Once we start making out and clothes are coming off I’m totally fine. But the transition from talking to kissing or from a date to kissing is what scares me.

Written by Alex Cogen

Alex is a New Yorker currently living in Austin. She loves cats, grass, and latex but unfortunately is allergic to all 3. She makes mom and dad jokes more than she cares to admit (jk she'll admit it loud and proud). She isn't as funny as she thinks she is. She is the founder of thelazygurl.com.