23 Hot Things Women Shouldn’t Be Self-Conscious About

17.

Honesty. A woman who is able to speak up about what is and is not working for her in our relationship gives me faith that the relationship can work out in the long term because we will be able to talk about issues before they become big problems and engender bitterness and resentment. Since I’m interested in a marriage that will last my whole life, that is very attractive to me. But, I think a lot of women feel that if they talk about their negative emotions, they’ll be on the receiving end of a lot of nastiness and/or judgment, or they might get dumped, so they feel self-conscious about being open. It’s not my intention to talk crap about women either. I think that belief and the accompanying feelings are justified by experience more often than not.

18.

There’s a girl at work who was in a car accident. She has a scar from the tube they had to shove down her throat with a raspy Tara Reid sort of voice from what I assume is the same cause, and one eye is smaller than the other. But f*ck me she’s gorgeous. Those things make her prettier to me.

19.

I find dark rings around eyes (from tiredness, etc.) really attractive, especially if the girl with them has dark hair and pale skin.

20.

Thick thighs. For some reason, women are aware that big boobs and butts are attractive, but are completely oblivious to how nice a curvy set of thighs look.

Written by Alex Cogen

Alex is a New Yorker currently living in Austin. She loves cats, grass, and latex but unfortunately is allergic to all 3. She makes mom and dad jokes more than she cares to admit (jk she'll admit it loud and proud). She isn't as funny as she thinks she is. She is the founder of thelazygurl.com.