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23 People Reveal The Most Inconvenient Thing About Their Dirty Fetish

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Scaring off guys. I like to dominate and peg, but obvs need someone else into it. Also I’m into wearing leather and have a lot if skirts, jackets, gloves, boots, but they’re mostly gifts from an ex who got me into it and I’m worried a new guy would be weirded out by me wearing fetish stuff someone else bought for me.

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Anal Sex and the cleaning/prep you need to do before it. Unlike what you see in so may porn movies, it is not a spur of the moment “Hey, nobody is here, let’s do this!” kind of act like regular sex unless you you don’t mind dealing with the potential for unpleasant clean up after. A girl I dated for some time absolutely loved “quickie” anal sex in semi-public places but we always had to plan for it. It wasn’t a bad thing by any means, it just meant that it wasn’t truly a heat of the moment activity unless she felt confident that she didn’t have anything in her that would cause too much of a mess and that she had some clean up supplies if there was.

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The slightest urge to pee turns me on and tempts me to keep holding.

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“So basically, I want you to pretend that I’ve mind-controlled you and turned you into a mindless sex slave who has to do anything I say. But only if you want to! I don’t want you to feel like I’m forcing you or anything.”

Written by Laura McNairy

Laura is a freelance writer for TFLN. She likes to write about what she knows best — dating, sex, and being awkward, but usually in the opposite order. She is the Assistant Editor and videographer for Peach Fuzz, a sex-positive nudie magazine in ATX.