The 23 Worst Things A Partner Has Ever Said to Their SO

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The most important relationship rule out there is to be with someone that treats you well. Yeah, there are a lot of other rules, but that one is NUMBER ONE.

You want to be with someone that respects you, and treats you with kindness and compassion. But, surprisingly, this is one of the rules some people begin to overlook, because they put other factor over kindness, empathy, and respect. Sometimes relationships start off well, but then deteriorate. It can be incredibly difficult to find the courage to leave someone that treats you poorly, but it comes down to self-preservation, and knowing what is best for you.

Someone that calls you that it’s your fault when THEY CHEAT or that you’re the “stupidest” (seriously dude?) woman in the world, then you need to get out of there. It may be hard, but it’s what’s best. And if you’re dating someone verbally or physically abusive, don’t be afraid to seek help.

If anyone speaks to you like the following 23 people did to their partner, just acknowledge that it is far from okay. No on deserves to be talked to that way, especially by someone they’re intimate with.

These 23 SO’s said absolutely horrible things to their partners:


“You’re the fattest person I’ve ever had sex with.”


Nobody else will love you with your problems.


“You’re going to end up miserable and alone, just like your mother.”


My boyfriend completely slipped up one time in the sack. We were having sex and we decided to try a new position that I had never tried before. I had an orgasm from that position, and then we were about to switch to a new one when he said, like, the worst thing possible. “That’s how I f*cked [random girl on one night stand he told me about].” …seriously? I got so f*cking pissed and gave a warranted WTF. He was apologetic immediately afterwards and we crawled up into a cuddle as I murmured passive aggressive comments toward him.

Written by Alex Cogen

Alex is a New Yorker currently living in Austin. She loves cats, grass, and latex but unfortunately is allergic to all 3. She makes mom and dad jokes more than she cares to admit (jk she'll admit it loud and proud). She isn't as funny as she thinks she is. She is the founder of