25 People Confess What Gets On Their Nerves Most During Sex

11.

When my partner takes it too seriously, and gets annoyed if things aren’t going exactly as they want. Also, this seems be a common thing with men – they don’t stick with one thing long enough for a lady to get off. If they’re responding well just keep doing what you’re doing instead of switching it up.

12.

My boyfriend doesn’t really have an opinion about anything involving sex, other than “I enjoy everything.” It doesn’t give me anything to work with when I try to please him.

13.

The assumption that if my dick doesn’t go from flaccid to rock hard in a moment’s notice I either think you’re ugly or I’m gay. Foreplay is a thing and I’m not a vibrator.

14.

When someone is obsessively self-conscious about an aspect of their appearance. Like if we’re at the point where we’re putting our genitals in each other’s mouths, you really don’t have to bring up how small your boobs are every time. Eventually it just detracts from the intimacy if someone won’t accept that I find all parts of them attractive.

15.

Jackhammer sex.

Written by Laura McNairy

Laura is a freelance writer for TFLN. She likes to write about what she knows best — dating, sex, and being awkward, but usually in the opposite order. She is the Assistant Editor and videographer for Peach Fuzz, a sex-positive nudie magazine in ATX.