Guys Reveal Their #1 Sex Tip For Girls To Be Awesome In Bed

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Enthusiasm. You don’t need to be a porn star, but it’s not fun having sex with a wet blanket. Make it seem like it’s something you both want, not like it’s a chore for you.

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Don’t be afraid to communicate that information with your partner. They aren’t mind readers, and EVERY woman is different, so even if they are experienced you’re going to get a lot of trial and error if you don’t speak up.

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Be vocal about any kinks you have. If the guy likes you, he’ll likely be into your kinks. And if you like him, help him figure out how you like it. It’ll bring you closer sexually and emotionally.

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Be open to lube. It shouldn’t be an insult to ask to use it.

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Learn how to suck a dick for longer than 3 minutes. Practice with a sausage when you’re alone, or in church, whatever. Become a good dick sucker, and you can get away with all kinds of dumb shit.

Written by Laura McNairy

Laura is a freelance writer for TFLN. She likes to write about what she knows best — dating, sex, and being awkward, but usually in the opposite order. She is the Assistant Editor and videographer for Peach Fuzz, a sex-positive nudie magazine in ATX.