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Ladies Reveal Their #1 Sex Tip For Guys To Make Them Dynamite In Bed

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BE VOCAL. I make a bit of noise myself, so it’s nice when a guy can let himself let loose too.

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Communication is just as important as foreplay. Women fake orgasms for one of three reasons: 1.) We’re too nervous to tell you we can’t or didn’t cum, because we don’t want to disappoint you, we don’t want you to think we’re difficult to please, or make you feel like you’re doing a bad job. 2.) We just aren’t having fun anymore because we aren’t anywhere near an orgasm. Therefore, we just want it to be done. 3.) We don’t feel connected to you in some way, meaning we don’t feel comfortable enough to orgasm and reach that level of vulnerability. All those reasons can be solved with communication and making sure you’re paying attention to her “needs.”

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Pay attention for heaven’s sake. I had an ex who liked to bite and thought that ‘oww’ meant ‘more please.’ When I asked him not to do it again, he was incredulous and kept telling me “but you liked it?!” Also, if I’m doing something, odds are I want you to do it back. I’m trying to help you here. At some point if you’re not getting the hint then I’m just going to lie here and wait for you to be done, an action which also shouldn’t be interpreted as you having blown my mind.

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Rub her clitoris like you would your own eye. That’s typically a pleasurable pressure for most women. (learned that from a TED talk!)

15.

Cut your nails, seriously.

Written by Laura McNairy

Laura is a freelance writer for TFLN. She likes to write about what she knows best — dating, sex, and being awkward, but usually in the opposite order. She is the Assistant Editor and videographer for Peach Fuzz, a sex-positive nudie magazine in ATX.