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Ladies Reveal Their #1 Sex Tip For Guys To Make Them Dynamite In Bed

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Just because she cums fastest in X position doesn’t mean it’s the best. Sometimes it feels awesome to get there more slowly, it’s more,… uh,… powerful. Like getting a check every 2 weeks instead of every week. You waited a bit longer for it, but that check was twice as big. Except it’s orgasms.

17.

Do. Not. Push. On. My. Head. While. I’m. Blowing. You. Fuck anyone who does this. I’ve got a system, I’m gonna blow you how I’m gonna blow you. Just let me do the damn thing.

18.

Variety! And that doesn’t mean switching positions or doing it in the spare bedroom for a change. It means variety of mood. Be playful. Be forceful. Be romantic. Be experimental. Be funny. Be sleepy and slow. Be dominant. Be soft and gentle. Be filthy, steamy dirty. Be something different instead of sexing us up the same old way every time. This is especially critical if you’re in a long-term relationship, otherwise things get stale.

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When you’re going down on me, don’t bite my clit. It doesn’t feel good and I will kick you.

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This stuff is pretty subjective but I’d say dudes, don’t forget the kissing. Even if you’re not in a face to face easy-access kissy position, stop to reconnect in that way every now and then. It feels hot and intimate and nice. And touch our faces sometimes when you kiss us.

Written by Laura McNairy

Laura is a freelance writer for TFLN. She likes to write about what she knows best — dating, sex, and being awkward, but usually in the opposite order. She is the Assistant Editor and videographer for Peach Fuzz, a sex-positive nudie magazine in ATX.