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19 People Describe What It’s Like To Have Sex With Someone That Is Transitioning

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I’m currently dating a trans woman. It’s great. She hasn’t had bottom surgery because from what the doctors have told her there is only a 60% chance she will be able to achieve orgasm if she does. Her testes have withdrawn back up into her body and her penis has gotten smaller. She doesnt ejaculate. So basically she has a large clit and no vagina. There are the usual issues with anal penetration but being bisexual myself I know how to navigate these issues. She has small a cups and smells like a girl. She acts like the woman that she is. I really enjoy spending time with her, even out of the bedroom.

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My (ex) girlfriend had transitioned six years before I met her, & completed her sexual reassignment surgery (SRS) two years prior. From my perspective having sex with her two year after the surgery, her vagina was very much like any other woman’s though the labia were a bit smaller, in her case, & she had a less ‘depth.’ Her vagina did not lubricate naturally & required plenty of lube for sex, but I am told that new SRS procedures can now use the body’s own secretion-producing tissue to simulate vaginal lubricant during arousal. All in all, she was very pleased & fulfilled that her body was now fully female in form & function & that translated into hot sex.

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A friend of mine is FTM and we sort of hooked up at a party. Honestly it was pretty hot. I’m male myself but I’ve never really cared about my partners gender or at least it doesn’t play much into whether or not I’m sexually interested in them. He preffered that I didn’t penetrate him so we just sort of grinded made out and rubbed eachother off. I’d do it again.

Written by Alex Cogen

Alex is a New Yorker currently living in Austin. She loves cats, grass, and latex but unfortunately is allergic to all 3. She makes mom and dad jokes more than she cares to admit (jk she'll admit it loud and proud). She isn't as funny as she thinks she is. She is the founder of thelazygurl.com.