21 Sugar Babies Admit Real Life Experiences with Sugar Daddies

17.

I joined a website when I was 18 that connects sugar babies with sugar daddies. I had only ever been with my high school sweetheart sexually, so I was scared what they would expect and decided I would let them know right away I was looking for a non-sexual sugar relationship. A lot of men were still interested, I had all kinds of men want to have me accompany them to events, dinners, sports games, etc. They would compensate me for my time and became more like friends, who would give me an allowance. It was amazing and helped me out in a rough place in my life. When I was 20 I met a man who started out as a typical sugar daddy but I ended up falling for him, and he fell for me but we only dated for about a year before we realized we weren’t a good long term match. We’re still good friends. I ended up in the same sort of situation at 21, but that didn’t work out either. They are the only 2 that I have been intimate with. From now on I decided I will stick with platonic sugar.

18.

I got into it because a few of my girlfriends were doing it as well. Whenever I tell a girlfriend about it, she ends up joining the site to find a daddy of her own. I’ve even gotten men to join the site. As for exclusivity, when I ended up falling for my sugar daddy, the two times it happened, we dated in an exclusive relationship. Otherwise I see many men and have them at my disposal at all times. The relationships aren’t sexual so I see no need to cut down on the amount of men and only see one. I have a day job, which doesn’t pay much, and am a student. When people who don’t ask how I’m able to afford nice things/go out so often/pay for tuition/etc, I just tell them I’m dating a generous guy who helps me out.

19.

I had a “sugardaddy” for like a month. Tbh it was super casual and he just bought me some nice clothes and cooked me food and let me stay at his in return for sex.

20.

I didn’t really have a stereotypical one, though he did do and buy all kinds of stuff for me, like phones, dinners (out), drive me places, get me stuff for my house, introduce me to cool people. Nothing completely unnecessary like a golden ring or I dunno, obviously Gucci clothes, he didn’t believe in blatant luxury himself, but he did get me really nice phones each time he did, replaced my iPod when it broke, etc.

21.

I have tried before. I’ve had some okay experiences, but a lot of bad. Sugar Daddies are just a**holes. They don’t wanna spoil you, they wanna own you. They want you to be on call 24/7 with no limits. On skype whenever they want. And you better do all that for an entire month with no guarantee of payment.

Written by Irvi Torremoro

Irvi Torremoro is an Austinite by way of Las Vegas. She's worked in various outlets in food & beverage and is now focused on writing, eating all the things, talking about Beyonce, and petting all the puppies. She runs flavorandbounty.com, a lifestyle blog about people in the service industry.