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Virgins Were Shocked To Find Out These 21 Things The First Time They Had Sex

18.

It’s lower then you think it is.

19.

Couldn’t find the hole. She wanted to turn off the lights. I tried finding it through touch. Once I did find it I couldn’t put it in because the angle was so hard (and my dick wasn’t because of the frustration of trying to find the hole). Thought I would last a few seconds but I gave up after I couldn’t come, even after 10 mins of frustrated thrusting.

20.

Being uncircumcised, that it could hurt going in for the first time. You always hear about it being painful or uncomfortable for the girl, but never the guy. That was the first time my foreskin was ever fully retracted. It’s so embarrassing to tell anyone that, i didn’t even tell me girlfriend at the time. Being uncircumcised in the US, my parents never talked to me about it besides “make sure you pull it back and clean it. I just had no idea how far back it could be pulled and i didn’t think it was meant to go that far back.

21.

For some reason I thought my dick would get hard as a spear as soon as the clothes came off. I guess years of hentai and fetish porn had desensitized me to naked bodies to the point where getting and keeping an erection was a pain in the ass. Anxiety also doesn’t help. I guess I subconsciously thought I would turn into a pornstar god instead of an anxious wreck like I am.

Written by Laura McNairy

Laura is a freelance writer for TFLN. She likes to write about what she knows best — dating, sex, and being awkward, but usually in the opposite order. She is the Assistant Editor and videographer for Peach Fuzz, a sex-positive nudie magazine in ATX.