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25 People Confess The Moment They Realized They Had Dirty Kinks

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Total power exchange, especially with men who are physically and/or figuratively more powerful than me. Something about someone who’s so strong bending to my will and trusting me to take care of all of their needs is extremely appealing to me. I discovered it when I was reading some story and a character did not allow his girlfriend to order at the restaurant. I can’t remember what I was reading but that thought has stuck with me for years and I hope I meet someone I can get to that point with someday.

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I’ve got a crossdressing fetish, but I like it a lot more in theory than in practice. When I was like 14 I tried on my parents clothes when I was home alone and I was pretty underwhelmed.

18.

Mine’s definitely watching the female orgasm. I have a size 14 ring finger for comparison’s sake. But I love fingering girl to a great orgasm where their eyes roll into the back of their heads, they squirt(which is another kink of mine), and seeing their thighs/legs quiver. All while just shouting in the joy of pleasure. But even more so, being with a gal who I can chain them with and get like 4 or 5 orgasms off in a row.

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Being a dom/sadist. I always sort of knew from the type of porn I was drawn towards, but definitely knew when I finally had a partner that was very much a sub/masochist.

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Strength kink. I have never been a small woman (I’m not obsese but I am just a little too big to fit a large at most stores) and something about a partner who can manhandle me like I weigh nothing gets me off like a bottle rocket. Learned that fact when I was 26 with this absolute twig of a navy man. This dude looked like he’d fall over backwards if you strapped one of those fully loaded military backpacks on him. I’m talking scrawny. Anyways, we’re going at it with me on top and I guess he doesn’t like where we are on the bed because without me moving off of him he just pushes himself into the crab-walk position and moves us up the bed and boom! I’m done.

Written by Laura McNairy

Laura is a freelance writer for TFLN. She likes to write about what she knows best — dating, sex, and being awkward, but usually in the opposite order. She is the Assistant Editor and videographer for Peach Fuzz, a sex-positive nudie magazine in ATX.