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These 21 People Walked In On Their SO Having Sex With Someone Else

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I was dating a girl who was getting close to one of my friends. They’d text each other, and I started seeing signs that it was more than a friendship. One day something just didn’t feel right, so I drove to my friends house, and sure enough her car was in the driveway. I stormed up to his door on anger and adrenaline. His door was open, and I furiously walked in ready to freak out when I discovered them fucking. I walked into his bedroom and discovered them naked in bed, cuddling, and watching a movie. The anger disappeared and was instantly filled with heartbreak and disappointment. I would’ve rather seen them fucking. I left and never spoke to either of them again.

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First met my wife when I was studying abroad in China. We dated briefly over there, got married, & she moved to the States with me. Occasionally her family comes to visit. Four years into the relationship, I catch her with her ‘brother’ in bed. I didn’t know what the fuck to think. I got angry, yelled at her, stormed out for the night, & crashed at my friend’s apartment. I went to work, came back home when she was at school, & the guy was gone. I go through her MacBook. Her Skype & email were saved. I find out the guy was her husband. The money we were sending to help her parents was being sent to this guy & her kids. We’re since divorced.

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In college, at a party with my girlfriend and a bunch of other people. I had a bit too much to drink and was lying down on the couch when a friend came over with a really strange look on his face and told me that my girlfriend was in the upstairs bedroom and I really should check on her. A bit confused and still half wasted, I stumble upstairs and open the door to see her in bed naked with a guy I don’t know on top of her. They see me come in and she starts pushing at the guy and telling him to get off her. He does his best impression of a deer in the headlights and doesn’t move.

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We’d been dating for over a year. She’d gotten a new job & to congratulate her I left work early & brought over champagne. No one was answering the door, but her roommate was in the stairwell outside their friend’s apartment & heard me knocking. She let me in. We both walked together to their room at the end of the hall and as her roommate pushed the door opened, my SO called out not to come in and I heard laughing. At this point, I moved on a kind of numb autopilot and pushed the door open. She was on top of him. She threw the blanket over her shoulders and looked back toward the door. I honestly lost my shit. I cried, screamed, went to absolute pieces. I knew the guy from other friends. She wasn’t apologetic at all. They were in love.

Written by Alex Cogen

Alex is a New Yorker currently living in Austin. She loves cats, grass, and latex but unfortunately is allergic to all 3. She makes mom and dad jokes more than she cares to admit (jk she'll admit it loud and proud). She isn't as funny as she thinks she is. She is the founder of thelazygurl.com.